The 38-year-old singer and actress Jennifer Lopez who married to male model Ojani Noa and dancer Cris Judd, admits she was partly to blame for the past failure marriages. She realized that a romance fails is not one party’s problem.

Jennifer said: “I learnt to take a look at myself and not to point the finger, like, ‘Well, this person did this to me.’ But say, ‘What did I do?’ The hardest thing in life is to really look at yourself in the mirror and ask, ‘What’s not so good about me, what can I fix?’ It’s so much easier to play the victim, I think.”

Jennifer realized that in order to maintain the marriage with her present husband Marc Anthony, she had to change.

She said: “Your responsibility for what you do in a relationship is the most important thing and not always going, ‘He could do this better and he could do that better.’ Well, what can I do better, you know? I could have taken the time to really ask what was wrong.”