Debating issues related to in the media is often seen as one of the positive consequences of the sexual revolution. Sex is finally out in the open, …….so to speak.

However, a revolution is often followed by a reaction. Likewise,erotica liberated has become a tyrant. Sex has ceased to be a means. It transformed into an end or an end in itself on the sly. Something akin to cult status was attached to sex. So what is the result of these changes? First off, folks are supposed to have sex in the morning and in the evening. And what about those who do not care about sex? Needless to say, they should be ashamed of themselves. Secondly, a missionary position belongs to the past; these days you are supposed to have sex on a desk in the office, study the Kama Sutra regularly, and record your sexual exploits on a web camera.

In other words, sex has been taken out of context of a relationship. Therefore, sex becomes a compulsory motive exercise as pleasure becomes a sacred duty of the one engaged in sexual activities. At least some of the public and the media seem to convey this notion of sex to us these days. Yet the aims declared and everyday realities tend to disagree, creating certain discomforts for the rank and file.

The more, the better

One of the most popular games for the title of a sex giant has a punch line with a question mark: “How often did you get it on?” Typical answers may include: “I did it seven times over the weekend,” and “I did it ten times with two guys.”

Besides, it remains unclear who devised those standards. After all, what kind of uniformity with regard to sexual relations are we talking about? Those who derive much more pleasure from collecting stamps or bird-watching are likely to be at a loss when it comes to the issue of universal sexual standards.

Live a life of self-indulgence

Sex is regarded a requirement that is as natural as hunger or sleep. Therefore, you should not ignore it if you want to be ranked among the full-fledged humans. That is to say, you can cause damage to your health by not having enough sex during a given period.


Sexual technique is a question of paramount importance

They say that a sexual technique is the key to success in lovemaking. You can be a great lover if you know a couple of surefire positions, a proper insertion angle, and have the ability to locate a G-spot. Needless to say, you had better have some firsthand knowledge of the subject. On the other hand, there are some reservations.

There is neither sense nor pity in orgasm

A man walks his way to orgasm in a pretty mechanical manner even if he thinks soccer in the process. It is the existence of female orgasm that makes life somewhat complicated. Besides, the issue of female orgasm got into the spotlight only in the 20th century.

True love implies good sex

Most people believe in the above formula; otherwise life would be too unfair.

Sex creates the strongest bond

Many people support this viewpoint by asking their favorite question: Is there any other way of being really close?

Long-lived happiness rests on sex

According to yet another myth, a long and happy relationship should be firmly based on regular sexual activity.

However , sex is not part and parcel of the life of partners who have maintained a happy and fruitful relationship for a long time. A knack for communicating with each other and finding solutions to problems in a joint effort is much more important. Not unlike sex, a sense of humor plays an important part in terms of a happy relationship. An everyday life of any couple is normally made up of shopping, breakfasts, children, plans, arguments and reconciliations, and a great deal of other usual routines. The role of sex in this case becomes obvious: sex is something that is used to spice up a relationship; it is a drop of honey added to life’s motley cocktail.